Living and loving

A couple of weeks ago I had the privilege of  being a part of the most beautiful display of living and loving that I have ever witnessed. My neighbor, who I had met when we were house hunting, had the sweetest husband, he always had a smile for me and my family, and while he was suffering with the effects of cancer, his sweet countenance would light up when we greeted him and he would ask how we were. Well this sweet man went on to Glory earlier this month. I was invited to be a part of the support team for his dear wife in his last days, she does not have family in the area. I did so little, and I was blessed so much. I did what we as military wives do, I brought over some food, a little wine, ran a couple of errands and was just there. In the hours that we were all there, we got to know each other and have probably built relationships that will last the test of time! In the days that we were together, I was witness to many friends that came to say goodbye. There were men that cried and women that put together a memory collage of photos. There were people that rearranged their schedules to be there for this sweet couple. I saw the most beautiful display of life, living and loving in the days of saying goodbye to this dear man. He was obviously loved and respected. His legacy was evident as so many came and called and poured out their hearts.
What did I learn? 1.Sometimes there is a great deal to be learned right in your own back yard.
2. I will no longer be a stranger to people around me-I had kept to myself and was busy shielding my heart as I was dealing with so much over the last few years.
3. Often times learning happens when you are not expecting it.
4. You never know the impact you might have had on others. This dear man obviously had a large impact on many people!
 Live, laugh and love on purpose!

( I did not use names on purpose).